The Same Way We Made Him

We want to believe that good parenting produces good outcomes. Adolescence asks a more frightening question: what happens when loving parents discover that a child is not an equation they can solve?

We want to believe that good parenting produces good outcomes. Adolescence asks a more frightening question: what happens when loving parents discover that a child is not an equation they can solve?

From the outside, life looked ordinary. Inside, dark waves kept returning. An old journal entry about depression, uncertainty, faith, and the simple plea: I want to live.

Perhaps the deepest danger of AI is not that machines are becoming too human, but that they expose how lonely, wounded, and hungry for connection human beings already are.

An old journal entry about the invisible effort of living through depression, the loneliness of pain that cannot always be explained, and the fragile hope of making it through another day.

Elephants raised a rhinoceros. A rhinoceros raised a penguin. Reading The Long, Long Night to my children made me think about love, letting go, and helping them one day find their own sea.

Solomon asked for a listening heart. Perhaps that is because truly hearing someone requires more than ears—it requires enough love to understand the heart behind the words.

Trusting a child is not the same as expecting them to become what we imagined. Maybe it means giving them enough room to draw a life of their own.

What if courage is not only fighting to the end? Radical Hope asks us to consider the courage to let go, admit weakness, ask for help, and survive so there can still be a next generation.

Why dig every well from scratch when someone else has already spent years finding water? A reflection on learning from older people—and becoming someone worth learning from.

Praying for a future spouse may be less about asking God for the person we have imagined and more about praying for another person—and learning to seek God’s will.